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5.

Sharing Your Personal Story

  The purpose of this session is for participants to explain the CoJourner role of a Guide—to develop their personal story of knowing Jesus Christ so they can encourage others that Jesus can change their lives also. Using Paul’s testimony as a model, each person will experience writing and telling their story to others. [Acts 22]
LOOKING BACK
(UP TO 20 MIN)
 

You will likely need more than 20 minutes during the Looking Forward section today. Keep this in mind as you prepare and lead.

Prayer and Care

 

If in a large group setting, choose a new facilitator in each small group who will guide the small group discussion.

  • Have each person discuss what they are thankful for this week.
  • Have each person share how they are doing and 1-2 prayer requests with their group. Pray for one another.

If someone’s needs demand more attention during this time, set a time after the meeting to help meet those needs.

Celebrate Faithfulness

 
  • How was your walk with Jesus this week? (Encourage loving accountability to obey Jesus.)
  • Have each person tell what happened as they trusted God for their goals and their “I will by when” statements.

Previous Goal

Motivation and Encouragement

 

Cast vision for who they can become in Christ and what God can do through them. For example:

Listen to this reminder from Ephesians 2:1-10: “And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience—among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.”

God saved you for good works that He has prepared for you. It is amazing to be on a journey of discovering these good works as we apply this training together!

LOOKING UP
(30-40 MIN)

Activity #1: The CoJourner Guide Role

 
  • The second role of a CoJourner is a Guide. A Guide shows the way, leading others to a specific destination. A good Guide knows where they are going, knows how to get from here to there, and is able to lead others on the journey with them. For us, the destination is not a place, but a person—Jesus Christ. Being a good Guide involves knowing what the gospel is, sharing it well, and being able to share your personal story of coming to Christ.
  • Let’s get to know each other’s stories a bit. Take a few minutes and choose two words that describe your life before you walked with Christ or became a Christian. Allow each person to share. This will be brief, but we will tie it all together later.
  • Now choose two words that describe your life now. Allow each person to share (briefly).
  • The Apostle Paul is an example of a Guide. Read Acts 22:1-22 and discuss their answers to:
    • What caught your attention and why?
  • Being a guide includes:
  • Your story: 2 words before/2 words now
  • Example of a Guide: Paul
    • Read: Acts 22:1-22
    • What caught your attention and why?

+ Summary: Outline of Paul’s Story

Activity #2: Demonstration of a Personal Story

 

Demonstrate to the group how you tell your own personal story. Share both the few-sentences version and your three-minute version of your story of coming to Christ.

  • Have group members discuss their answers to:
    • What caught your attention and why?
    • How does this story compare with the three components in Paul’s story?

Transition

The Bible has many examples where people told the story of what Jesus had done in their lives. God has also given you a story to tell of how He has changed your life. Writing our story helps us learn to tell it well.

We will continue to use Paul’s story as a guide. We have given you a simple plan to follow as you write your story. There is also an additional resource page of tips that you may find helpful in the Appendix - Tips for Writing Your Story/Testimony

  • What caught your attention and why?
  • How does this story compare with the three components in Paul's story?
LOOKING FORWARD
(15- 20 MIN)

Preparing

 

Your Story in Three Phrases

  • Give the participants five minutes to write down two or three words that describe their lives in each of the following two parts. Use non-religious words meant for people, not the pews.
    • What was your life like before Christ? (or before you walked with Christ)
    • What was your life like after you received Christ?
  • Give 5 more minutes for this part of the writing exercise. After finding their four to six words, connect them with a phrase that points to the gospel. Now take time to write your story in just a few sentences. For example, “I noticed I was putting things in my life that only postponed my emptiness. I pursued the concept of truth and read the NT. I discovered my concept of God was completely wrong. He wants a relationship. I’ve been gladly following Him since then and feel like I’m moving toward abundance.”
  • Have each person share their story in a few sentences with a partner. (See Practice and Feedback below.)

Write Your 3-Minute Story – (including a simple explanation of the gospel)

  • Give the participants up to ten minutes to begin writing their story in each of the three parts. Point them to two documents: Tips for Writing Your Story/Testimony and worksheet Session 5b
    • What was your life like before Christ? (or before you walked with Christ)
    • How did you meet Christ? (make sure the gospel is clear and brief)
    • What was your life like after you received Christ?
  • Have them write 2-3 sentences to provide details about each part.

Practice and Feedback (2 times)

  • Have the participants find a new partner and repeat telling their story again. Allow about 3 minutes for each person to share.
  • Make sure they give feedback to each other on what they heard.
  • Have the participants find another new partner and repeat the process a third time. Use a stopwatch to only allow three minutes for each to share.
  • Make sure they give feedback to each other on what they heard.

Pursuing

  • Add new people to your Oikos Network List . Identify anyone you interacted with as an Explorer and who displayed characteristics of a God-Prepared Person.
  • Identify 3 or more people with whom you seek to act as a Guide.
  • Write Next Step Goals and share them with your small group. (“I will by when”)
  • Touch base with your accountability partner.

Next Step Goal

Praying

  • Commit everyone’s goals to the Lord. Ask the Lord to lead us to God-Prepared People.

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